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40. SMART SPIRIT
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His father was a simple religious man who used to
sing devotional songs in the temple and bring home sufficient PRASAD for the
family. After his death, his son took over the traditional job of singing
“bhajans” for their daily meals. He was a hopeless singer with a hoarse
disturbing voice and a great nuisance to the visiting devotees. On growing
complaint, the singer was asked to move to the extreme corner of the temple and
continue his singing, to the great relief of all. What was relief to the visiting public became
a headache to the ghost which was staying quietly in that abandoned corner
since long. The ghost was already forlorn, depressed and miserable. Initially the ghost was happily listening to
his song as a welcome diversion in its dull routine but within a few days, it
became intolerable for it to continue staying there. The ghost was unable to
handle the situation and all its efforts to drive him away proved futile, as
the singer was dependent on his daily meals from the temple.
A few times when the ghost tried to scare him away
from the place, the singer became more disturbed and his singing became acute
and intolerable. The ghost was getting on its nerves, finding no way to get out
of the nuisance. You may be aware that ghosts have their own network; their own ways and means of solving their
problems. Let us see what happened.
The king of the place visited the temple with his
Queen and beautiful Princess for worship as the marriage of the Princess was
going to take place. The wily ghost had a sudden brain wave to escape from the
torture of the daily singer.
Within a week, the city was rife with rumors that the
beautiful Princess was mentally disturbed and behaving in an erratic manner.
Many physicians tried their best to find out the cause. She was behaving wildly
and screaming at others and threatening them.
Even Witches, Exorcists, Sorcerers were called to find a way out. After a long ritual by the Satanist, the frenzied
Princess shouted at her father to bring that Musician from the temple to sing
songs in front of her which she wanted to hear.
Immediately soldiers were sent and the surprised singer was brought in
front of the delirious Princess. She asked him to sing his songs and to the
surprise of the King and Queen, the Princess seemed to enjoy the songs and was
slowly returning to her normal self. In a few days the Princess was her normal
sweet self. The Ministers suggested to the
King, to retain this singer in the Palace itself, so that the princess would
continue to be normal. The singer was also quite happy to find himself well
employed in royal company, enjoying the luxuries and attention.
You must have guessed by now, what must have
happened. The tormented ghost, took
possession and control of the Princess and clamored for hearing the songs of
this wretched singer and thereby got rid of him at the temple and also paved
the way for his daily meals at the palace. The smart spirit is now back to its cosy corner in the temple..
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39 PURANDARA DASA
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SRINIVASA inherited his father’s business of gemstones and pawn broking at the age of 20 and prospered and earned the title of "Navakoti Narayana" and was very close to Emperor Krishnadevaraya of Vijayanagara Samrajya. His wife was pious, religious and charitable. Unlike his father, Srinivasa was greedy, miserly and mean to the extent of salvaging money even on food, medicine and clothes of his own family. He was the richest, merciless miser of 9 crores.
The turning point came at the age of 30 when a poor man came to his shop asking for financial help for the sacred ceremony of his son. Srinivasa went on dodging him for many days. One day, the poor man went to Navakoti’s house and asked his wife for financial help. The pious lady gave her nose ring , gifted by her father, to the poor man. The poor man was so happy that he rushed to Navakoti’s shop to pawn it for money. Navakoti recognized the nose ring and was shocked to find it in the hands of the poor man. He took the nose ring and locked it inside his safe and told the poor man to come after one hour and collect the money as he had no ready cash. He closed his shop and ran to his house to verify from his wife. The moment he confronted his wife and noticed the ring missing from her nose, he questioned her. The frightened wife ran inside her pooja room and locked herself. She prayed GOD to save her from this unexpected situation. Navakoti was shouting at her " Where is your nose ring ? " and she replied that she had removed it in the bath room, while taking bath. Navakoti ran to the bath room and searched. It was a miracle. The nose ring was there. Navkoti was now satisfied and ran back to the shop to make the deal with the poor man. He opened his safe to check the nose ring once again. The nose ring was not there…… vanished. He was shocked to find it missing from where he had himself locked it in. He was totally in trance not knowing what is happening to him. What if, the poor man turns up for payment ? He was in turmoil. The poor man never turned up to collect the money. The traumatized Srinivasa returned home and heard his pious wife telling the truth to him.
The incident and the mystery of the poor man’s game, who was none other than Lord Shri Purandara Vitthala Himself, transformed him completely. Having realised his folly, he was ashamed of himself and decided to renounce all material belongings and become a dasa (servant) of God. Navakoti was converted to the belief in the virtue of a charitable life and gave away all his wealth to charity. He left his house with his pious wife as a wandering poet, composing and singing songs in praise of the Lord.. In his very first song composition, he laments his wasted life of indulgence. In later years, he composed a song dedicated to his wife, for having shown him the path to God. Tradition and legend holds that he composed more than 4 lakh kirtanas in praise of Lord Narayana and other Devatas. He is believed to be an avatar of Narada, the celestial singer and son of Goddess Saraswati. At the age of 40, Srinivasa was bestowed with the name of PURANDARA DASA by Holy sage Vyasathirtha, the Rajguru of Krishnadevaraya, the Emperor of Vijayanagara kingdom. . He spent his last years in Hampi singing in Krishnadevaraya's durbar. He died at the age of 80 at Hampi. The mantapa (mandap) in which he stayed is now known as Purandara Dasa Mantapa (mandap) in Hampi .
PURANDARA DASA [ 1484 to 1564 } is considered as one of the chief proponents of South Indian system of Music called Carnatic Music. In honor of his enormous influence, significant and legendary contributions to Carnatic Music, he is widely referred to as the Pitamaha or Father of Carnatic Music
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38 CHAIN REACTION
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On Friday evening at about 5 pm, Mrs Rekha
was taking a walk towards the temple, when two motor cycle borne youths
snatched her gold chain worth 1.25 lakhs and fled. Mrs Rekha immediately
contacted her son Nitin on his cell phone, who had just dropped her in the same
road and was riding ahead in the same route taken by the chain snatchers. She
gave him the description of the duo, the rider wearing Blue T shirt and the
pillion rider yellow shirt. While
listening to his mother, Nitin noticed the two men matching the
description riding towards him. He started his scooter and rode it zig-zig
against their fast approaching motorcycle, causing the duo to crash down. The surprised
duo gathered themselves up and started
quarreling with him. In the melee, Nitin was quick enough to remove the ignition key of
the motor cycle of the thieves. Nitin
charged them with snatching the chain of his mother and demanded the
chain back. When the crowd gathered and a Policeman was found approaching, the
duo began to flee towards Kavlekar bridge. Nitin contacted his friends waiting for him
near the bridge and asked them to come immediately to the bridge and gave the
description of the duo who have snatched the chain of his mother. On being
accosted again, by Nitin’s friends in the bridge, one of the suspects jumped
into the river bank and started running while another fled elsewhere. Nitin and his friends chased the suspect along
the river side road. When the suspect saw them pursuing, he jumped into the
river and started swimming to the other side to escape from the pursuers.
Meanwhile, the police arrived there on being alerted by the scooter accident
and police mobile network. The suspect swimming in the river was asked to
surrender. Fearing that he would drown in the rain-flooded river, the suspect ultimately
surrendered. The Police held him and found the chain in his possession and are
now pursuing the escaped accomplice.
This is a true life modern crime trend in
daily life in most of the cities. The complication came, while assessing the
case for declaring the winner of the Reward of Rs.5000 for catching the
notorious chain snatcher. Who deserves
the Reward of catching the thief ?
The mother who promptly alerted with
crucial details.. The son who way laid & removed the ignition key.. The
friend who blocked his escape through the bridge.. The policeman who cornered
him and recovered the chain ? Please
hurry up with your recommendation as the claimants are clamoring for early
decision and payment….
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37 TOUCH ME NOT
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It is easy to get angry especially if you are amenable to
provocation. If you start believing that certain things make you angry, you are
inviting trouble; because the mere happening of it will automatically make you
angry. Your sub conscious mind will trigger you to get angry. “ See it is happening.. Get angry and blow it off.” You will sometimes proclaim in advance as a
warning that you will get angry on certain spoken words or actions. In fact you
will slowly identify yourself as a person likely to get angry on certain
declared and self proclaimed matters and issues. Others are expected to abide
by your terms or else face the heat.
This goes on and on, as long as it works. The aggressive person never
examines himself as to why he gets angry and what is the escape route to get
rid of it.
I remember in my childhood playing many games with my
friends for hours together in the evening. While I have forgotten many of these
games, I cannot forget the one played by my friend Sivaraman, He was very
clever in involving others into a fight by provoking them in a novel way. He used a very simple technique when we were
together in a group.
“ Hey Ram..Do not touch the nose of Shiva ”
The surprised Ram used to ask why. He used to repeat “ Never touch his
nose” Now both Ram and Shiva will be
wondering what is the matter. Shiva whose nose is involved in the matter
will also get into the trap. Ram will
get curious and insist what will happen if he touched the nose of Shiva. Sivaraman used to say,
“ If you touch his
nose, he will get angry..”
Now Shiva gets an idea inserted in his mind by the
mischievous friend. Ram finds it quite
interesting and would like to try. Some
other clever boy would challenge Sivaraman and say “ No.. He will not get
angry..” Now the issue of Shiva’s nose
becomes a debate and Shiva becomes a victim of pressure and is forced to take
an honorable stand. When Ram is pushed towards Shiva, it is time for him to
react on an issue not at all relevant earlier. Invariably Shiva’s mind gets
ready to resist any attempt by Ram to touch his nose. It is my nose.. Who are you to touch it..? Human psyche… When Ram
tries to touch the nose, Shiva resists, struggles and fights. Ultimately,
the normally gentle Shiva ends up a
furious angry boy, trying to protect his nose from the prying hands of
Ram. We have gone through this game
played on many of us in rotation.
What is to be understood from this incident, is the
genesis for inheriting provocation progressing to anger, Either it is a clever insinuation by others
to which we get easily entrapped or we try to show our anger to prove a belief held by others about us. Anger is caused by a PHANTOM created by us and
strengthening it by feeding on trivial things. In any case, the root cause of anger is
entrenched deep inside each one of us and is very difficult to identify and
remove it forever.
The easy way out is “ Come on…Ram.. Touch my nose..”
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36 S n e a k
He was transferred to a new station
where he found it difficult to rent an accommodation for his family. With great
difficulty and influence he was able to locate the owner of an abandoned and
unoccupied house in a remote locality and managed to rent it. His family was
very happy to join him at his new duty place.
The house was quite old and a little bit lonely but spacious. A few houses nearby were occupied and there
was nothing to be afraid of about security. In a few days a cat used to visit
their house and started staying with them. The wife and child were quite happy
with the new addition. A cup of milk was more than enough and it managed its
meals with its rat-hunting prowess in the night. A neighbor told her that she used to see
snakes in the night. Her husband, who
used to return home late in the night after work hours, started carrying a
torch as a stand by requirement.
The most bizarre event happened that
night. A snake quite long and big was trying to enter the house in the night,
through the gap between the doors of the house.
The house was of course bolted from inside and the lady and child was in
their bedroom. The lady was half awake awaiting the arrival of her husband. The cat was there inside the house napping
near the door, waiting for the return of the man from his work. The snake found the gap between the doors and
sneaked inside. At this moment the cat was disturbed and caught the head of the
snake, mistaking it for a rat or mouse.
The snake was struggling to get released from the jaws of the cat and
the cat was not releasing its grip. The
door was between the two and the cat was trying to pull the snake inside. The snake whose body was outside the door was
struggling in pain and its five feet long body was hitting the door again and
again in an effort to get released from the jaws of the cat. The noise was
getting louder.
The lady awoke with a start, hearing
the sound of banging on the door. With sleepy eyes she rushed at the door to
open it for her husband. She opened the
door and was startled to find something else happening there. The snake fell
inside the house and circled around the body of the cat. The cat and the snake
got entangled with each other and rolling inside the house, as if in a wrestling
match. She got frightened at this terrifying
spectacle and started screaming. God
only knows what happened afterwards. The cat must have released its catch or
the snake must have tightened its grip and strangulated the cat. Suddenly both of them disentangled
themselves. The snake moved away
escaping through the door into the night. The cat stood there watching. The
lady was still screaming and shivering in fright, when the husband came home a
little later.
A really bizarre night of terror and
fear.
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35 Litmus Test
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The scholar with a flowing white beard and head gear was looking like a sage from Mythology, addressing the spell bound audience with pearls of wisdom about life, career and goals in life.
“ Life
is a gift which should be lived prudently. We have to sustain ourselves by
working at a job or business to earn our livelihood. You may like it or
not. It may be ethical or not. You may
have no choice. You may be working as a clerk, singer, doctor, lawyer that does
no harm to others. You may be working as a butcher, or in a weapons factory, or
in a brewery or in underworld mafia that does harm to others. People may admire you or despise you for your
profession. It is not easy to make a living that does no harm to others. You
may be working for someone who is nasty, corrupt and merciless. It is not
possible to choose your job or business that is noble and satisfying. You may
never get the type of job you want. Many
times, the job you get is the one you may hate to do it. You may have no option
but to compromise on your inherent principles to earn your living ......................... "
It is true that in our life, we never get what we love to have. It is also true that what we really have is not liked by us. But we have no choice with the situation and carry on with the same. Many times we realize that our likes and dislikes are due to our own faulty vision of reality. Therefore, we should take care to get what we like or we will be forced to like what we get. Life is very strange to understand …..……
It is true that in our life, we never get what we love to have. It is also true that what we really have is not liked by us. But we have no choice with the situation and carry on with the same. Many times we realize that our likes and dislikes are due to our own faulty vision of reality. Therefore, we should take care to get what we like or we will be forced to like what we get. Life is very strange to understand …..……
Patience is better than wisdom; an ounce of patience is worth a pound of brain. All men praise patience, but few can practice it; it is a medicine good for all diseases. Many people are born crying, live complaining and die disappointed. Nothing is easier than fault finding; no talent, no brains are required to practice this grumbling business ………..
Shame and fame are part of life. Sometimes your instincts will trigger to do something crazy and illogical. Nothing in the world is more dangerous than sincere ignorance and conscientious stupidity. Stupidity is a talent for misconception. Stupidity is not lack of knowledge but the illusion of having it. Stupidity is not a crime. Everything happens for a reason, but sometimes the reason is because we are stupid and make bad decisions. Stupid people don’t always know that they’re stupid. They might be aware that something is wrong, they might notice that things don’t usually turn out the way they imagined, but very few of them realize it.. Too many people, either ignorantly or intentionally, but happily go in the wrong direction. Stupidity is a gift of God, but one mustn't misuse it
At this juncture, the speaker took a break and looked at the audience, as if he was searching for someone, a most stupid one, probably. Having identified him in the crowd, the speaker asked him politely ......
“ Sir. Was it clear and have you understood
all that I explained now ? ”
The bewildered man got up and said
happily that he understood everything, as clear as crystal.
The speaker
thanked him profusely and concluded that if he has understood, it
means all those present have understood the speech.
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34 E S C A P I S T
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We all want to
escape occasionally. There are some occasions that are tricky, unpleasant or
avoidable and make us wonder why we are stuck there at that awkward
moment. Closing your eyes and plugging
up your ears won't alter the situation to change anything. Nothing's going to
disappear just because you can't see what's going on. You have to keep your eyes wide open and find
a real escape from places where you feel trapped in an impossible situation, in
an unpleasant place, with unfriendly people.
There are various ways of taking a temporary escape from the problematic
place and if you find one, why shouldn’t you take it..?
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31 G E T L O S T
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My Group Officer went on leave and I was to work under a new 0fficer for about a week. The new 0fficer was an eccentric type and my usual rhyme of work was disrupted. I found it difficult to cope up with his idiosyncrasies. The climax came on the day when I went to his room with my official papers and stood at his door, as he was busy reading some files. I coughed and made some sounds about my arrival, but he did not notice. I therefore entered and stood before him. He was still looking at his papers and failed to notice me. After a few minutes, I sat on the chair expecting him to finish his reading.
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29 PRE TENSION
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27 POST MORTEM
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26 AFTER KURUKSHETRA WAR
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This is the real story of four persons engaged in some
important business as partners and for easy reference we shall call them by these
names viz.,
EVERYBODY, SOMEBODY, ANYBODY and NOBODY.
EVERYBODY, SOMEBODY, ANYBODY and NOBODY.
There was an important assignment to be done
immediately on that day but it was not clear among themselves as who should
initiate the process.
EVERYBODY was sure that
SOMEBODY would do it.
ANYBODY could
have done it.
But NOBODY did it.
SOMEBODY got angry about that.
Because, it was EVERYBODY’s job.
But EVERYBODY thought that ANYBODY would do it.
NOBODY knew that EVERYBODY would not do it.
Eventually EVERYBODY blamed SOMEBODY.
SOMEBODY blamed EVERYBODY.
NOBODY did what ANYBODY could have done it.
Hope the above
real story clarifies the “escapist
solution” to the problem under discussion.
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33 P H O B I A
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You cannot
diagnose whether it is sub-conscious fears or inferiority complex that drive, a
few of us more than others, crazy with neurotic behavior. Our self doubt or deep rooted beliefs about
not being good or worthy enough, results in embarrassing moments when the fears grow bigger than ourselves,
grabbing us by the tail and swinging us around. It is a sign of low self-esteem
arising from self perception, timidity and spineless phobias.
Do you find it
difficult to follow ?. Then the following incident will give you an idea of the
above, as an illustration.
The man was sleeping soundly and was perhaps
dreaming as his eye balls were rolling all around. Suddenly he started shouting
“ I am a rat ” “ I am a rat” deliriously and his body was shaking wildly out of
fear. His wife woke up alarmed and shook
her husband, who again shouted “ I am a rat”.
She said.. “Ok … just relax. It is alright..
Everything will be ok..”
He woke up in a disturbed state and took some time to recover and come back to
normalcy. He was actually sweating and
his anxious wife pacified him.
The wife who
was accustomed to such erratic incidents was finding this incident very strange
and alarming. Why did he shout that he
was a rat ?. What was the problem that scared him to this extent ? She slowly
cajoled him to disclose what happened and whether he was having a nightmare.
He said he had
a dreadful dream, quite frightening and life threatening. She said “ That
is ok but why did you shout that you are a rat ”.
He said ‘ Yes. I was a rat in the dream and
was chased by a cat.”
She questioned again “why did you say that you are a rat.”
He said “ I was
chased by a cat and ran into the laps of a Rishi who was meditating in the
jungle.”
She started listening.
“ I begged the Rishi
to make me into a cat so that I will not be chased by cats and get rid of the fear of being killed.”
She continued to listen.
“ The Rishi
converted me into a cat instantly and the real cat which was chasing me was now disappointed and left me alone.”
“Within a few minutes
I was chased by a dog and had to rush back to the Rishi and begged him to
convert me into something stronger than dog. The Rishi was kind enough to
convert me into tiger. Even though I was shivering in utter fear of life, I
looked at the dog and the dog looked at
me with wide eyes and ran away with its tail tugged between its hind legs. The Rishi
was quite happy with the situation.”
The wife was
finding this quite interesting but still could not understand why he was
shouting those words.
“ I was just
relaxing after having escaped from the dog, and I suddenly came across the cat
looking at me with wide eyes. It was the same wild cat which had chased and
charged at me earlier. I ran for my
life, back to the Rishi to save me from the cat. The Rishi
looked at me and said, “ Why are you afraid,
You are a tiger now ” I could not
believe and trust myself in front of the cat.
I shouted at the Rishi that I am not a tiger.. Save me.. I am a
rat .. I am a rat…” That is when you woke me up.”
The wife was
now satisfied and patted his shoulders with greater understanding and kindness. { You are not a
tiger. You are a rat. You are a rattled
rat always }.
“ Don’t worry now… Go to sleep now.. I am
here.. I will take care of you ”
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You cannot
diagnose whether it is sub-conscious fears or inferiority complex that drive, a
few of us more than others, crazy with neurotic behavior. Our self doubt or deep rooted beliefs about
not being good or worthy enough, results in embarrassing moments when the fears grow bigger than ourselves,
grabbing us by the tail and swinging us around. It is a sign of low self-esteem
arising from self perception, timidity and spineless phobias. Sometimes NIGHTMARISH.. OK
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32. “ SWAPNA ” SUNDARI
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The
inauguration event was a great success considering the crowd. The VIP
politician who came to inaugurate the Seniors Ashram, dramatically chose an
elderly lady inmate, to cut the ribbon. The beaming old lady in the glare of
flash lights, TV cameras and newsmen inaugurated it in great style. Later a TV
cameraman took her aside for a special interview of her for telecast. The
reporter was astonished when she replied that her name was “ Swapna Sundari ”. In jest, he admired her
name and said that she must have been a real Swapna sundari for all, in her younger days.
‘ Yes.. I was
Swapna Sundari in real life and
also in my “ reel ” life.
I am the same Swapna Sundari, the famous film heroine of yester years. I
was once the dream damsel of the whole country. All my films were box office hits running for
more than hundred days, making my producers rich and richer. All the rich
handsome and mighty men were at my feet. I was living in the dream world of fame and
adulation by the public for many years.
I always thought that I shall be in lime light of public life unforgettable
and forever. My confidence in my beauty and fame made me feel that way,
especially after that unforgettable incident many decades ago.”
The
astonished reporter who accidentally broke into this extra ordinary “ Breaking
news ” event, prodded the old lady to
continue her story.
“
I was proceeding to Ooty in First class compartment of the train for my
shooting. I did not know that Mahatma
Gandhi was also traveling in that train.
He was traveling in Third class compartment as usual. As the train was
approaching the station, I found thousands of people standing in the platform,
with garlands in their hands to welcome Mahatma Gandhi. Out
of curiosity, I opened the door to watch the crowd getting ready to welcome the
Mahatma. As my first class compartment was the first to enter the station, the
crowd cheering Mahatma Gandhi noticed me standing near the door. You should
have seen their face at that time. A look of surprise and excitement at seeing
me standing and traveling in the train, made them forget their purpose. One by one they started chasing me and within
seconds the entire crowd started chasing my compartment. I was totally unprepared at this sudden
development. The people who were shouting “ Mahatma Gandhi ki jai ” started
cheering me by shouting my name. A few
of them started giving me the garlands in adoration. I started accepting the
garlands and within a few minutes all the garlands meant for Mahatma Gandhi
were offered to me. Mahatma Gandhi was
in the last compartment with a very few people greeting at him in reverence. I
was in cloud nine that day… an unforgettable
day in my life.
The
reporter was looking at the old lady in wonder.
“
Look at me today.. I have to proclaim myself who I am and who I was. You were not even born at that time when it
happened. But you do know Mahatma Gandhi
who is still a living legend all over the world and his glory of eternal flame
through his deeds and virtues, is immortal.
And my quest for it ended as a mere dazzling bubble ”
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31 G E T L O S T
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A man complained that he could not see properly
The doctor showed him the alphabet A and asked him to read
The man said “ No… I cannot read”
The doctor fixed a glass and
asked him the same question
The man said he cannot read it.
The doctor fixed a more
powerful one and asked
The man said he cannot read.
The doctor fixed the highest
powered glass and asked
The man again said “No”.
The doctor was astonished how
he cannot read even with that glass “
The man said he cannot read
English alphabets.
So when a person is totally
ignorant of English, no change of glasses will help him to understand English alphabets. He must be given
only those alphabets which he can understand. What is crystal clear to some is
totally ambiguous to others.
To whom it is clear, it is not clear how it is not clear to others.
A group of
friends were discussing about cases of persons getting lost while trekking in a
remote area or in uncharted forests. A few of them survived miraculously after a
great ordeal and others were presumed dead after years of search. In the
absence of GPSR functional mobile phones, it is really pathetic for the hapless
adventurers to keep walking disoriented for several days aimlessly, without
food or sleep, in some assumed direction fancied to be the required destination. The harrowing environment infamous for testing
human limits makes it impossible to survive and get back home safely. How about some guidelines...?
“The easiest way to escape
from getting lost forever, is to determine the
direction, from the position of the sun or moon during the day or night,by a simple method. ”
“ How is it possible.? ”
“ If it is day time, the position of sun in the
early morning or late evening will indicate the direction viz., East in the
morning or West in the evening. If it is night the position of moon will
indicate the direction as East in the early night or West in the late night ”
“ It is not possible to come
out of jungle so easily ’
“ Astronomy provides the
method for finding direction at night. Once you stand still and ascertain the
four directions, you can determine the direction to which you are proceeding
and keep going at the same direction inspite of the confusing scenario. Boy
scouts and Girl Guides use this technique frequently to return to their camp”
“ I do not understand how this
is possible especially when the moon is crescent ”
“ Mentally draw a line that
connects the horns of a crescent moon and then extend this line down to the
horizon. In northern latitudes this will give an approximate indication of
south. It works best when the moon is high in the sky and not too near the
horizon. The bulging side of the
crescent moon indicates west early in the night and east late in the
night. The moon will of course rise and
set very roughly in the east and west. There are some simple rules worth remembering,
for example, a full moon will behave in the opposite way to the sun ”
“ You do not understand and
go on lecturing endlessly as if it is so easy "
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What is crystal clear to some is totally ambiguous to others
To whom it is clear, it is not clear how it is not clear to others.
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What is crystal clear to some is totally ambiguous to others
To whom it is clear, it is not clear how it is not clear to others.
WE ARE ALL DIFFERENT IN THE
WAY WE PERCEIVE THE WORLD.
SOME ARE MENTALLY CLOUDED AND
OBSESSED WITH ONE SMALL SECTION OF TRUTH.
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My Group Officer went on leave and I was to work under a new 0fficer for about a week. The new 0fficer was an eccentric type and my usual rhyme of work was disrupted. I found it difficult to cope up with his idiosyncrasies. The climax came on the day when I went to his room with my official papers and stood at his door, as he was busy reading some files. I coughed and made some sounds about my arrival, but he did not notice. I therefore entered and stood before him. He was still looking at his papers and failed to notice me. After a few minutes, I sat on the chair expecting him to finish his reading.
The moment I sat on
the chair, he raised his head and looked at me angrily and asked,
“ Who are you ? ” I was shocked at this question.
I got up and said, “
Sir. I am your officer ”
He continued “ Why did
you enter the room ?”
I replied “ Sir.. This
is an urgent case…”
He interrupted “ Did you not see the red
light? ”
I was upset with this
type of arrogance, not experienced by me so far. I thought he was unnecessarily
troubling me for no reason and whatever he was doing now was only a deliberate
pretense to ruffle me. Was he immersed in his prayers or any great research work
there ? I got up with my papers and said
“Sorry Sir.” and left the room forth with. I was so angry that I decided not to
enter his room even if he wants me. It was a terribly humiliating experience
while doing office work.
I went back to my
section inflamed and enraged with anger making a firm decision not to go to his
room hereafter. Even if he calls me, I
will not go there. Why should I undergo such humiliation? Just because he is
just one grade up, he need not overdo such things to prove his superiority. I
am not a guinea pig.
Within a few minutes
the peon came and told that the 0fficer wants me. I was still furious and told
him to convey that I will not come. The
peon was shocked. He had never encountered
such a reply, someone refusing to attend when called upon by a superior. He was
still standing there and I told him again in clear words, “ Tell the 0fficer, I
am not coming..” The incident was
escalating. All those around me heard it
and were surprised at this sudden outburst.
The staff started throwing glances at each other. The
peon waited for a few minutes and went back totally confused. I decided, come
what may, I will not enter that room again. What does he think ? Is this his
house ? Did I enter his bed room ?
After some time, my
phone rang and I did not take it. I was sure he was trying to contact me. I had
already decided to go to the full distance. Come what may. I don’t care. My staff was watching this new development churning
up. My colleague officer sitting nearby looked at me curiously. Suddenly his phone rang and he was attending
the call. It was my 0fficer asking him
whether I was there in my seat. “Yes Sir.. He is in his seat. I will call him”
It was going out of
control. Now he is checking whether I am in my seat. First time in my official
life, somebody is checking me. Meanwhile my colleague was holding the phone and
called me to come there. I asked him who is calling. He answered that it was my
officer. I shouted from my seat. “ Tell him I am not here.” The staff working
under me was shocked to hear these words. My colleague was equally shocked and
was still holding the phone, not knowing what to say or how to handle the
situation. I was at my worst mood now. “ Hell hath no fury like a man scorned”
It was a bad day. Even
my staff did not interact with me the whole day, to be on the safe side. My
colleague tried his best to find out what was going on. “ I have never seen you upset like this before..Tell
me what happened..” I did not want to broadcast my humiliation. Gossip picked
up its scent. I was wondering how to pass the next few days, until my previous
officer turned up. I found it demeaning to go on leave myself merely to avoid
this officer. I found myself totally disturbed even after reaching home. Everything was irritating me. “ Who are
you..Why did you enter my room.. Did you not see the red light ” These
obnoxious words kept on ringing in my ears frequently. My wife and children
smelt something wrong and kept away from me. I was slowly trying to dispel
these haunting scenes from my mind.
We were about to sit
for dinner, when the door bell rang. My son opened the door and found an
unknown middle aged man asking for me. He came back and told me. I got up and
was surprised to see my officer standing there. I had almost forgotten him for
some time and now he was standing there in front of me, at my door. Totally
unexpected. The same man who asked me “
Who are you ? Why did you enter my room ? ” was now standing there in front of my door. I did not know
what to say or how to react. I was awe
struck and he was awkward.
“ I am sorry ” the
officer said. I was taken aback at this unusual situation. The entire tempest
blowing inside my head so far vanished. I became normal when I found an 0fficer elder to me by many years,
coming all the way making inquiries to locate my house and expressing regret. Recovering
myself, I invited him inside my house. “
I am sorry ” he said once again and went
away, leaving me spell bound, awestruck and speechless.
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29 PRE TENSION
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A
King indulging in power and pleasure was suddenly interested in finding out
what “desirelessness” would be
like. He called his Minister and asked
him to locate the most utterly “ desireless ” person in the country and bring
him to the court.
The
Minister went on surveying, interviewing persons, saints, sadhus and sanyasis
but found them unfit for producing before the King, who was a meticulous
person. Totally exhausted, he decided finally to engage an actor and trained
him extensively to make him impersonate the most desireless person in the
country, to be produced before the King. When the actor was ready, he informed
the King accordingly. The King who
wanted to see him immediately, sent horsemen and carriages to bring him to the
palace. The Actor wisely refused to accept the invitation to see the King-- just
to prove his “desirelessness”.. “If the King desires he can come and see him”.
The King was astonished and impressed by this refusal.
Next
day the King proceeded towards the “desireless” man living in a remote area, on
his elephant along with the Queen, followed by his Army chief, Ministers, soldiers
and officials. The imposter was stunned and readied himself to play his best performance
to suite the occasion.
The
King descended from his elephant with his Queen almost 100 yards away from the hut
of the “desireless” man and came walking towards him with great humility
followed by his ministers and officials. The King, Queen and the Army chief bowed
respectfully before the desireless man and paid respects. They offered him flowers, fruits and gold coins
as gifts. The “desireless” man remained
totally detached from the happenings and politely declined all the offers, with
great foresight. The King was immensely pleased at this demonstration of
desirelessness but pleaded fervently to accept his offerings and also visit the
palace to honour him.. The desirelessman showed no inclination at all. The King was very happy to have met and realized
his dream in real life and with great
reluctance left the place taking back all his offerings. A perfect desireless person. The Minster was also very
happy to have succeeded in his assignment.
After
this episode, the Minister came back to the impostor in the evening to settle
the payment terms. The Minister
appreciated the impostor/actor for his excellent performance and gave him a
bagful of gold coins, much more than agreed.
The desireless man declined to accept the payment. The Minster said he has added more than agreed
for. The desireless man again refused to accept. With great reluctance, the minster took
another packet and spilled extra gold coins to please the man. The man refused
to accept again. The Minster was losing his patience and scolded him for acting
too much and there is a limit for claiming payment.
The
impostor said “No sir.. I am not acting
at all. I am actually not interested in
this payment anymore.. This assignment has opened my eyes and taught me a lesson in my life. A few days of practice and a few moments of
pretending “desirelessness” has given me the pride and prestige never
experienced in my life so far. The King
and Queen of this country bowing their heads before me along with the Army
Chief and soldiers is no mean achievement in my life. If a few moments of “desirelessness” could
give me this achievement, why should I revert back to my old ways. I have now become truly desireless. I do not want this payment. Desirelessness is
the highest form of bliss. I am now
redeemed. Thank you for giving me this opportunity and showing me a new
direction towards enlightenment.”
MERE
PRETENSION AS GOOD, ALSO LEADS TO GOOD.
Right from my adulthood, I have
learned to seek my happiness by limiting my desires, to the readily accessible
wants. If I limit my desires, I will have fewer things in my mind to struggle. I
will have less to strain or worry as compared to when I have more aspiring desires. Less Desire and Less worry will set my focus
on right thing. My attention will go
into the right direction. As a result, I
will enjoy life more often than hunting after far off irresistible objects of
desire. I would be able to appreciate things I have than be frustrated at not
having things that I desire. I have observed that those who enjoy life with
few desires are calm, peaceful, without worry or tension.
… a Very Happy and Relaxed Man
________________________________________ 28 TOWARDS TOMORROW
What
a mess I made of things
That was yesterday
Yesterday has taken wings
Hide mistakes away
Things I did, cannot be undone
Silly then to sorrow
Better is the task begun
On a bright new morrow
If I hadn't acted thus ....
SILENCE… moaning heart
Useless now to fume and fuss
Make a brand new start
What a blow.... Fate is unkind
Grit your teeth? Do not murmur
Smile as if you didn’t mind
Stand a little firmer.
Failed to day? Today is past
Tomorrow is peeping round the door
Never doubt. You will win at last
That is what tomorrow is for
That was yesterday
Yesterday has taken wings
Hide mistakes away
Things I did, cannot be undone
Silly then to sorrow
Better is the task begun
On a bright new morrow
If I hadn't acted thus ....
SILENCE… moaning heart
Useless now to fume and fuss
Make a brand new start
What a blow.... Fate is unkind
Grit your teeth? Do not murmur
Smile as if you didn’t mind
Stand a little firmer.
Failed to day? Today is past
Tomorrow is peeping round the door
Never doubt. You will win at last
That is what tomorrow is for
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27 POST MORTEM
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He was an expert Astrologer.. Can forecast
or predict by studying any part of the body,
hair, finger, palm, ear anything.. One day he found a skull washed
ashore, while going for a walk. He sat down and studied the skull.. Man’s
skull.. Someone who suffered a lot in life and probably committed suicide.. Premature
death.. But there was still some more
suffering yet to be undergone. A very strange case. It
made him curious. How some suffering is
still left to be undergone, after death? Quite queer and unusual. This
disturbed him so much.. Something wrong.
It was a challenging case for an expert like him. He tried his best to
find an answer. Even after one hour of
research, the skull was a baffling case.
He decided to carry it home and examine in detail leisurely. But his
wife was very orthodox. She would not permit. He somehow managed to smuggle it inside home
without her knowledge and hid it in his room.
It was a mind blowing complex case. Every night, he locked himself in his room and
examined the skull. Some days even during
daytime he was engrossed in unraveling the mystery.. His wife noticed his secret behavior inside
his locked room and began to suspect what was going on. One day she confided
her doubt to her neighbor lady friend. She promised to help by watching him
through her window where from she had a view of his room. She found out that he
was examining a skull frequently by running his fingers over it and also
looking it closely and intimately.
The neighbor lady enquired his wife,
whether she is the second wife of this man.
The wife was shocked. “No I am
his first wife.. He was unmarried before marriage. ” The neighbor surmised that the way he was
behaving with the skull, it appeared that it must be his first wife or his
sweet heart before marriage. The wife was so enraged that when the husband
was away, she broke into his room, located the skull and hammered it with the
grinding stone, smashing it to pieces. She quietly resumed her work at kitchen,
when the husband returned.
As usual, that night when the astrologer
entered his secret room, he found the answer to his most baffling problem
tormenting him for days together. The answer to his nagging doubt was staring
at him. The skull was shattered to
pieces. That elusive and pending event, yet
to be undergone by that man, now a skull, has finally happened. His mind was now clear and satisfied. He
slept peacefully that night next to his wife who was still very stiff and
awake.
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26 AFTER KURUKSHETRA WAR
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After the Kurukshetra
war, Pandavas ruled Hastinapura and requested their uncle Drithrastra and
Gandhari to preside over their Kingdom. In course of time the bereaved parents
of Kauravas declined to remain in Hastinapura and proceeded on final
pilgrimage, Kunti the mother of Pandavas also joined them. For some time they
were under care and surveillance of Pandavas for care and help. They soon moved away from the care of Pandavs into the
forests and jungles around Ganges, Drithrastra practiced and sustained life
only by breathing, Gandhari by drinking only water and Kunti by eating once in
a month. Sanjaya was also engaged in similar austerities. They never stayed in
one place long enough to avoid being pursued by well meaning Pandavs. Once lost
in jungles, the Pandavas grieved a lot remembering their uncle though blind but
as strong as 1000 elephants; their aunt who gave birth to a hundred sons and
their own mother who chose to lead an austere life than enjoying the wealth and
pleasures earned by her sons after great
turmoil and a devastating war.
On one fateful day,
the blind Drithrashtra smelt something burning far away and exclaimed. It was a
forest fire raging nearby. In a short while the fire engulfed all trees making
birds and animals flee from the area. It was at this moment the trio decided to
embrace death in fire. Sanjaya found no way of saving them and he was asked
to escape. They were already very weak and famished due to their austerities
and were determined to face death by fire as a welcome opportunity than to
continue their life without any purpose. They got into a trance and surrendered
their bodily senses with open arms to the fast approaching forest fire. The end
was not that accidental but as though they were waiting for it with open arms. That
was the end of their lives.
Pandavas ruled Hastinapura until they heard about Krishna’s
death.
The Pandavas lost interest in the world and decided to go to heaven. Parikshit was appointed the king and they
along with Draupadi donned deer skin and tree bark once again and proceeded towards the snow peaked Himalayas. After crossing many
rivers and hills, they found a dog joining them in their journey. Yudhistra was
leading them, followed by Bhima, Arjuna, Nakula and Sahadeva. Draupathi was exhausted and lagging behind
all of them.
When they were about to cross Himavat, Draupathi
fell down dead. When Bhima was moaning,
Yudhistra commented, “ She was very partial and loved Arjuna more than all of
us.” After many more miles, Sahadeva
fell dead and bemoaning Bhima recalled his humility and service to them. Yudhistra commented that he was very proud of
his wisdom. After a few more miles of
climbing, Nakula fell down dead. Bhima
admired Nakula for his peerless beauty.
Yudhistra said Nakula was vain of his physical features and considered
himself most handsome. With the remaining trio, Bhima was shocked to find
Arjuna falling dead. Bhima cried in anguish on the death of the mighty wielder
of Gandhiva and admired the truthfulness of Arjuna. Yudhistra said Arjuna was
proud of his heroism and boasted that he would kill all his enemies in one
single day. They continued further and Bhima found himself staggering and asked
Yudhistra to reveal about himself. Yudhistra said “ You were a great eater and
never bothered what others wanted. You had a ravenous appetite and our mother
Kunti kept half of the available food for you alone and the other half for the
rest of the family. You are the strongest, crusher of elephants and skilled in
wielding the mace.”
Yudhistra continued his journey. The mysterious dog
was still following him. Suddenly he saw the chariot of Indira descending ahead
of him and Indira invited Yudhistra to ascend the chariot. “My wife and brothers are all dead and I
cannot come without them” Indira smiled
and said “ They are already there and you will meet them.. Please come.” Yudhistra said “ This dog is following me
faithfully. I wish to take it with me”. Indira said “ There is no place for dogs
in Heaven. You please leave it and come. There is nothing cruel in it, I
assure.”
Yudhistra said “ I desire not for that bliss for
which I have to abandon this dog and my virtue. I shall not give up this
devoted dog even if my life is taken away.”
Indira said, “ You have acquired this bliss out of
your own good deeds. You have abandoned your brothers.Why not this dog.?”
Yudhistra replied. “ It was beyond my power to
revive my brothers. I did not renounce them.
But this dog is alive and devoted to me.How can I abandon it.”
At this moment a wonderful event happened. The dog
transformed into God DHARMA..Yudhistra’s father… Smiling at Yudhistra, Dharma
said,
“ Glory to
thy good nature. You have compassion for all creatures and exemplify it in your
deeds. I had tested you all along and even at the last moment you are prepared
to lose your bliss for the sake of a dog. Glory to you and your virtue..”
Yudhistra then ascended the chariot and granted the
privilege of going to the world of GODs in his human form. So great was his
righteousness. Yudhistra had told only one lie in his otherwise sinless life.
For that he was made to enter Hell first and then moved to heavens and thus ends
the epic story.
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25. I HAVE A DREAM
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Once Chou
dreamed that he was a butterfly. He fluttered about happily, flying around
beautiful gardens, sitting on flowers, sucking sweet honey and quite pleased
with the state that he was in, and knew nothing about Chou. Presently he awoke
and found that he was very much Chou again.
Now, did Chou dream that he was a butterfly or
It is a
thousand dollars question and a topic of intense interest in modern cognitive neurosciences. Is this a message? If so
what is the meaningful insight into this dream content ?. Has
it anything to do with his unconscious beliefs or desires ? Or just a freak
happening of no significance.
Once Ching
dreamed that he was chased by a ferocious dog and he woke up screaming and
sweating. From that day he was angry
with dogs in general and started throwing stones at any dog found in the
street. A revengeful attitude instigated
by a dream which has nothing to do with reality.
Once Ping
happened to confront a dog which looked at him ferociously. Ping was scared of
the dog which was luckily chained. That night he dreamed being chased by a
ferocious dog and he woke up screaming and sweating. Can you say that the dream
was instigated due to the event of the day preceding the dream. From that day
he was scared of all dogs in general. Can the fear psychosis be attributed to
the dream. This raises the question of reality monitoring in dreams,.
Once a King
was sleeping and dreamed that he was found begging in the streets for food. When he woke up he could not believe why he
was begging. The dream caused total disturbance and no one was able to counsel
him on its significance. What was the
meaning or significance of this dream ? Was it a mere distortion or something
conveyed in concealed disguise ? Has it anything to do with the dreamer’s
mental complex or perversions?. Should it be viewed as a super natural
intervention foreboding bad times? Why
did it happen ? Stress.. Tension,
Threat or Fear…
Once a
beggar in the street dreamed that he was the King of the place. He found himself riding an elephant followed
by a cheering crowd. He woke up in good cheer and found himself lying in the
pavement. Can you say that wish
fulfillment was the motivation of this dream ?
“ All that we see or seem is but a dream within a dream.” Edgar Allan Poe
Many
theories try to explain the significance of dreams like memory consolidation,
emotional disturbance, threat simulation, wishful thinking, manifestation of
fear, reflections of day time experiences, severe depression, anxiety
etc., Evidence suggests that dreams
sometimes assist in day time function and performance relating to problem
solving or creativity.
“ I dream my painting and I paint my dream ”
Vincent Van Gogh
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Sacred
Heart School starts at 9 am and students
arrive in buses from various parts of the city.
Many of those who arrive early are instructed to assemble in the Hall
and should not be loitering or playing in the area marked in yellow stripes
where the buses carrying the students stop to disembark the students.
One day many
boys were playing in that prohibited area marked in yellow stripes.
Unexpectedly the Principal of the school arrived and found them playing in that
unsafe area. He was horrified and lost his temper when he found them playing
recklessly and shouted at them.
“ Stop
playing all of you… Do not you know that
you should not be playing in this area ? ” All the surprised boys stopped playing. The
Principal was raging with anger.
“You are all going to be punished for that” He yelled at them. The boys stood there
looking down, with their heads hung, listening to the angry outburst of the
Principal. After a few minutes of thinking, the Principal asked them
aggressively.
“Alright.. Tell me
who prompted you all to play here.
Tell me his name. ”
All said in chorus.
“ John. ”
The Principal
was now red with anger and extremely upset.
“JOHN. Come with
me to my room.. I will teach you a lesson. I will thrash you so much that you
will never think of doing it again. ”
The frightened boy
John came forward and stood in front of the angry Principal. At this tense
moment of crisis, the boy raised his head anxiously, looked straight into his
eyes enquiringly and murmured ….
“I do not think
you are such a bad person to punish me like that. Sir.”
The
Principal was stunned and taken aback by this innocent remark. The frankness and
confidence of the boy about his good nature, was overwhelming. A few seconds of profound silence followed in
the tense atmosphere. The Principal did not know how to react when the boy gave
such a reply.
Slowly
a small smile appeared in the face of the Principal. He regained his composure.
His face resumed his normal, pleasant, kind appearance as he started cooling
down to his calm nature.
The
innocent reply of the boy neutralized the uncontrollable outburst of fury of
the Principal. It was also equivalent to
saying “ Sir. You are such a nice and good Principal. Why do you talk like this? Did I make you angry by my behavior? Please
pardon me for my mistake.”
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23 GOD IS NOWHERE
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In the open ground many children were
playing foot ball, cricket etc, One boy was flying a kite as the breeze was
ideal for the sport. He went on flying it high, loosening the string and
pulling the string to make it rise higher and higher. It was a wonderful breezy day and the
forceful wind was taking it so high, almost touching the clouds.
A passer-by watched the boy pulling
the string systematically and making awkward and strange actions... and then asked,
“ What are
you doing ? ”
The boy replied, “ I am flying the
kite..”
“ Where is the kite ? I cannot see it at all.”
“ It is there in the sky, beyond the clouds..”
“ How do you know the kite is still
flying there ? ”
“ Yes.. I cannot see the kite. But every time I pull the string, I can feel
that the kite is there at the end of the string. ”
The man was awakened.
It is the same about realization of GOD also. You cannot see but it is definitely a
personal feeling of understanding. It is
through the string of meditation and prayer,
you can personally FEEL the
presence of God. Sometimes you
can't sense God's presence because there's something blocking the link between
the two of you, like the clouds hiding
the kite from your view. You find yourself discouraged at times, because it
seems like God just isn't around. God isn’t making himself known. God's energy flows through us all whether we
know it or not. Search within yourself… Connect
to a higher power of your own understanding, to open a path to God, anything
more powerful than you. Begin in earnest and all will be revealed. You will
then be in tune with GOD all the time.
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Psychology is the
science of the mind. The human mind is the most complex machine on Earth. Although we cannot observe the mind directly,
everything we do, think, feel and say is determined by the functioning of the
mind, the source of all thoughts and behavior.
The Mind is a private sphere to which no one but the owner has access.
No one else can "know our mind."
Let us understand our mind from the following incident.
A man was keeping a parrot as a
pet and loved it so much. Later he brought a cat, as a mouse was disturbing him.
One day the cat caught the mouse
in the kitchen. The man was so happy and appreciated the cat. Next time, the
cat caught the pet parrot. The man was shocked and cried. He drove away the cat
from the house. The cat came back one day with a crow in its mouth. The man looked at it and went away without
any emotion.
The point is, when it caught the
mouse (he did not like the mouse in the kitchen} he was happy. When it caught
his parrot (parrot was his pet) he was angry and sad. When it caught a crow he
ignored it as he was not affected at all.
Anyway, whatever the cat did, was
its own nature and has nothing to do with the man’s emotions. All his appreciation,
anger, sadness or disinterested reactions were his own behavioral pattern based on,
what the cat did.
Your MIND is like the cat. It does what it likes arbitrarily, in its own
way. You cannot control the cat always. You cannot control your mind also. It is a wayward vagabond. You must therefore try to understand
your mind…and use your mind.
You
should realize that our mind is actually an invisible government or ruling
power inside our head. Our mind is just like a muscle molded, where our tastes
are formed and our ideas suggested. The more you
exercise the more it can expand further and get stronger. Our mind controls us with likes, dislikes, desires and fears,
poisoned by unnatural or artificial beliefs. It is they who pull the wires
which control the mind. Such minds
punish us with flashbacks, painful memories, unbearable emotions, self-harm and
what not. The eye of the storm is what
goes on in our mind, how we think, feel, digest and react to the confusion of
what goes on around us.
You must understand
the mental processes and patterns of your mind and cooperate to live together
as a smoothly functioning entity. Discipline your mind every morning with pure
thoughts, messages, and ideals by the commonly employed system of mind control
--- of relentless repetition of positive statements.
MASTER YOUR
MIND. IT MATTERS.
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21 FEAR IS A BURDEN YOU CARRY
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There
was a Sanyasi who was traveling from place to place with his disciple. He had
no possessions except his brown cloth and a water-filled kamandal, as a symbol of ascetism.
The disciple always took care
of him and followed the Sanyasi where ever he went The Sanyasi never stayed in one place for more than two days, as per
the tradition. Whenever they reached a new place they used to be received by
the Head man of the village, who used to make temporary arrangements for their
stay and discourses. Before occupying the new place for lodging, the Sanyasi
used to ask the Head Man, “ Is there anything to be scared of, in this place ? ” The Head man used to say, “ Nothing to be afraid of, Swamiji.. This is a safe and peaceful place..” The sanyasi used to sleep in the night, keeping
his Kamandal near his head. The
disciple also stayed with the sanyasi. The Sanyasi and the disciple used to
take bath in the nearby river or pond, perform their daily rituals as required
by custom. The Head man used to arrange “Satsangh” and all the
villagers used to take part in it. Next day sanyasi and disciple would leave the village to the next destination.
In the next village, they were received by the
Landlord and offered a place to stay. As usual, the Sanyasi asked the Landlord
whether it is a safe place to stay. The
Landlord assured the Swamiji that there was nothing to fear about the place.
That night while the
Swamiji was sleeping with the Kamandal near his head, the disciple could not
get his sleep. He was wondering why the
Swamiji was always worried and afraid of something before occupying his new
lodging place. It kept on troubling his
mind whole night.
Next day morning the Swamiji
and his disciple went to the nearby river to take bath. The Swamiji left the
Kamandal at the bank and entered the water to take his ritualistic bath. The disciple took the opportunity to examine
the Kamandal, which appeared to him as the source of fear. When the swamiji was
busy dipping his head into the water, the disciple managed to open the Kamandal
and found a few sparkling diamonds under a layer of TULSI leaves.
After the satsang with the villagers, the Swamiji and disciple left the village next day. In the new town, as usual, the Swamiji was given a big room near the temple for their stay. The swamiji asked the Landlord whether it is a safe place to stay. Before the Landlord could answer, the disciple replied that it is a very safe place to stay and there is nothing to be afraid of. The Swamiji was surprised and asked his disciple, “ How do you know..? ” The disciple replied.. “ Your fear was thrown into the river, yesterday.. ”
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After the satsang with the villagers, the Swamiji and disciple left the village next day. In the new town, as usual, the Swamiji was given a big room near the temple for their stay. The swamiji asked the Landlord whether it is a safe place to stay. Before the Landlord could answer, the disciple replied that it is a very safe place to stay and there is nothing to be afraid of. The Swamiji was surprised and asked his disciple, “ How do you know..? ” The disciple replied.. “ Your fear was thrown into the river, yesterday.. ”
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